Dear Annie: I am writing in response to the letter regarding the friend who was snubbed and not invited to join the group. True friendship is built on respect, kindness and mutual support, not dismissive or hurtful behavior. The writer seems like a thoughtful and sensitive person, someone who values ​​meaningful relationships and deserves enriching, reciprocal friendships.

In situations like this, it’s best to let go of the hurt by forgiving the person – not necessarily for their sake, but for your own peace of mind. Holding on to resentment only makes the hurt worse. Forgive them, wish them well, and move on, knowing that you are making room in your life for the people who truly appreciate you. Sometimes moving past certain relationships is a natural part of life and can lead to deeper, more fulfilling connections.

As painful as it can be, it’s important to recognize when it’s time to break off a so-called friendship that no longer serves you. Pray for the snobbers, forgive them, and focus your energy on the friendships that uplift and nourish your spirit. — Forgiveness is a gift

Dear Sorry: I am printing your thoughtful letter because it highlights the importance of forgiveness, not only for the sake of the person who wronged you, but also for your own mental and emotional well-being. Thank you for sharing your insights on one of my favorite topics: the power of forgiveness.

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